“Sorry… We’re not friends yet. You and I. I’m so over familiar….”   

restless Ann paces her room full of shoes, clothes and stories. As she reflects on the pains and pleasures of online dating, the sudden weight of dealing with grief, and the ups and downs of her mental health, Ann tries to find those barriers in her life that stop her truly finding herself…but keep her trying to find a man.   

Featuring movement and a club soundtrack trying to find me marries Bridget Jones’ Diary and Insecure with Blind Date.   

Written and performed by BEFFTA award-winning Ann Akin (BBC1/HBO’s The Strike Series, Channel 4’s Electric Dreams, Channel 4’s Humans and BBC2’s The Jayone Prince Show), trying to find me exposes the secret, heart-breaking and wonderfully honest and funny world of Ann — a black woman in her early 30s looking for love and in many ways, trying to heal.   

Written and performed by Ann Akin, presented by tiata fahodzi in association with Talawa Theatre Company.





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Deacon Know Good Deacon Know Good @ThaLastGoodGuy

They Say A Man Must First Find Himself Before He Finds His Woman Or He’ll Damage Every Woman He Comes In Contact Wi… https://t.co/EErQ8vOMwT

2 weeks ago
Kathryn Kirton Kathryn Kirton @KathrynKirton

Saw a few @PulseIpswich shows today, all part of Free Day, a good way of taking a chance on something you wouldn’t… https://t.co/X0eMIXzzjB

2 months ago
Sonia Jane Sonia Jane @SoniaJane

Blown away by #tryingtofindme today at @NewWolsey. First time I’ve been moved to hug the performer! Ann Akin was m… https://t.co/0FwpJSL3JZ

2 months ago
Harts Theatre Comp Harts Theatre Comp @Harts_Theatre

Want to watch some new work TONIGHT? Pop down to @battersea_arts and catch an extract of our AD Ann Akin’s new show… https://t.co/cCctpXJgQl

2 months ago
This Crazy Life This Crazy Life @bpros503

Y’all. I wanna be more than someone’s mother, wife, daughter, and so on and so damn on.! I need to find me again.!… https://t.co/8yjE1CIC3e

2 months ago
Pierre Godson Pierre Godson @PGodsonProduces

Yep! YourCinemaFilms: RT tiatafahodzi: We’re SO excited to announce #tryingtofindme a new show touring this summer… https://t.co/4yLM1a8g8C

2 months ago

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